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</div><h2>Coaching can be a very rewarding.</h2>
<h3>It&#8217;s the ideal career / activity choice for those who:</h3>
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<li>Like to work with people</li>
<li>Have a strong desire to see people excel in their lives</li>
<li>Are prepared to let others do the talking</li>
<li>Can connect with people and listen with interest and empathy</li>
<li>Are willing to put aside their own agenda when dealing with others</li>
<li>Have an open mind</li>
<li>Who see possibility and potential in people whatever their status</li>
<li>Are creative in their thinking</li>
<li>Are prepared to be tough with people</li>
<li>Are prepared to be honest with people</li>
<li>Are enthusiastic and happy individuals</li>
<li>Have their lives well sorted</li>
<li>Are interested in continuing to learn and grow</li>
</ul>
<h2>Questions for aspiring coaches</h2>
<h3>one of the fundamental tenets of coaching is to focus on others, so can you:</h3>
<ul>
<li>Listen in a nonjudgmental, open-minded manner?</li>
<li>Ask questions that are genuinely intended to expand the thinking and awareness of others?</li>
<li>Effortlessly create a dialogue with people?</li>
<li>Explore people’s issues and test solutions with them, without imposing or prescribing your own point of view?</li>
<li>Support your people to improve their capabilities and performance over the long term?</li>
<li>Generously give of your time and resources for the benefit of others?</li>
<li>Inspire others by passionately sharing the stories about your experiences, successes, failures, and creative ways to improve results with limited resources?</li>
<li>Be focused on empowering others to act?</li>
<li>Give up telling or dictating and encourage others to take responsibility and come to their own decisions / conclusions?</li>
<li>Work with others to create a compelling vision of the future to which they are committed?</li>
<li>Give feedback which is focused on the positive, and builds the capability of others to succeed?</li>
</ul>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Now some questions that can assist us to evaluate the suitability of candidates for coach training.  We are looking for responses that: </strong></span></p>
<ul>
<li><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Indicate a high level of self-awareness</strong></span></li>
<li><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Would indicate an approach that is non judgemental, curious, exploratory, asks questions etc. as distinct from emotional and self centred, full of ego etc.</strong></span></li>
<li><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Indicate an orientation / preference towards service to other people</strong></span></li>
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<p>Here we go:</p>
<p>Having read the above, some questions for you:</p>
<ul>
<li>What’s your reaction overall?</li>
<li>What makes you say that?</li>
<li>Where are your strengths?</li>
<li>How have you used these strengths in the past?</li>
<li>What were the results?</li>
<li>How did it make you feel?</li>
<li>Tell me about a specific example where you supported the growth / development of someone.</li>
<li>What are the areas for your further development?</li>
<li>What do you know about yourself and/or your behaviours that cause you to choose these areas?</li>
<li>When working with groups or individuals who have very different views to you, how do you react?</li>
<li>Coaching is a lot about supporting the success / growth of others:</li>
<li>What do you think about this?</li>
<li>Coaching is also about not imposing our own solutions, thoughts and feelings on others, more about supporting others to think for themselves and come to their own conclusions.</li>
<li>What are you thought on this?</li>
<li>Based on what you know so far, is coaching for you?</li>
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